Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Conservative?

I was chatting with a female friend of mine today over in the MSN, so we started this debate on conservative, she said she is a very conservative person, she will not venture into sexual relationship. Then I ask her is virginity that important to you? She replied yes. I do not know about the rest of people who is reading my blog.

For my humble opinion, virginity is just another word in english vocab which does not bring any significant meaning to me. When one falls in love, you will love him/her regardless of whether they protected their virginity or not. I am not sure if you people would agree with me. After much debate with my friend on the MSN, I gave her a scenario (case study). It goes like this, a guy fell head over heel for a girl who had a dark past working as a call girl (prostitute), the guy know the truth, what should the guy do? She puzzled and cannot answer it.

For me, when you love someone, you love him/her for who he/she is at the moment and the future. You cannot utter the word "I LOVE YOU" if inside you, you still care about her past. Whatever past for me is history. Look forward positively for a better and brighter future? Agree?

6 comments:

kennethnorman said...

Virginity is just a word for human beings actually. Even what we write know is just some alphabet that we created to tell something.
We were brought up in a family with good self value.
Conservative...i would say from small we were brain washed.
The cultures taround us has evolved & virgin or not, conserve or not is not a problem. Those thinking of conservative i would say kolot....

Anyway, conserve or not it's the a word that we recognise as a labeling of things.


Malaysia Boleh!!

keeykeey said...

i agree with u mike...

keeykeey said...

n when we was young...
those gal frens that swear would protect their virginity always the first who lost it... hahahaha...
she said only.... lol

Michael Song said...

ya keey, many people would say that confidently when they were at school. But girls, if the guys really love you, nobody would care about this ya... long live the Generation-X

poohgia said...

I hope all the guys have the same thinking as you, mike..but I doubt it...If you say they really dun care, tell me..if the gf tell the bf that she has slept with more than ten men..wat will be the reaction?

Michael Song said...

pooh... i do not think it is an issue for me... what is most importantly is how the girl feel about me now... not haunted by the past... well... i do understand that how people look at the girl if she happened to sleep wif 10men, but if that guy got upset with it after being together and knowing the fact, then in the first place, the guy should not have started it if he has doubts on the girl he loves...