I was chatting with a female friend of mine today over in the MSN, so we started this debate on conservative, she said she is a very conservative person, she will not venture into sexual relationship. Then I ask her is virginity that important to you? She replied yes. I do not know about the rest of people who is reading my blog.
For my humble opinion, virginity is just another word in english vocab which does not bring any significant meaning to me. When one falls in love, you will love him/her regardless of whether they protected their virginity or not. I am not sure if you people would agree with me. After much debate with my friend on the MSN, I gave her a scenario (case study). It goes like this, a guy fell head over heel for a girl who had a dark past working as a call girl (prostitute), the guy know the truth, what should the guy do? She puzzled and cannot answer it.
For me, when you love someone, you love him/her for who he/she is at the moment and the future. You cannot utter the word "I LOVE YOU" if inside you, you still care about her past. Whatever past for me is history. Look forward positively for a better and brighter future? Agree?